Today in my R.I.M.® training , I met a familiar character… my inner Judge. Turns out, my Judge looks a lot like one of those BIG RED BUZZER BUTTONS. You know the kind — when something’s off, it slams the button and goes: BUZZZZ! You did it wrong! BUZZZZ! You should have been there for that one! BUZZZZ! That wasn’t good enough! But then, I discovered another Judge behind the scenes. This one has a gavel — quietly listening to the buzzer and deciding how I should feel   about w